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Denisgrad
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You ask every girl differently. All people have different personalities, so every single one will approach you in different way.

I prefer a girl to ask me out, because I just suck at asking such things from a girl. I am 15, and I was rejected twice out of three times. I got rejected twice because I rushed our relationship( asked her to early). If you want my opinion, here it is. Don't rush, get to know the person before you make further actions.
Hope this helps, Sparty.

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boyzinthewoodz
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oh sry i missunderstood the thread. no strip club then...

well, whenever they ask me to go out, then they are stupid enough to call me when im to lazy.. always in the last moment <---> no thx!
girls & boys should ask earlier and not in the last minutes or im just to lazy. i dunno

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I prefer a girl to ask me out, because I just suck at asking such things from a girl.

I think you will never get a girl then. Girls are not about to ask you out in 99% of cases. They're waiting for you to ask them.
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I am 15, and I was rejected twice out of three times. I got rejected twice because I rushed our relationship( asked her to early).

Now it's clear why.
user Denisgrad has written
If you want my opinion, here it is. Don't rush, get to know the person before you make further actions.

This is nice advice, but still - it depends on situation. For example, I always rush and let me count... I had 8 girlfriends so far.
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i usually literally ask her out.. like t go to the movies or get something to eat.. then after u get to know her you should get more serious.

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" hey your sexy i wanna have sex with u".

dude go try this
and make sure someone else films her response

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I'm in similiar situation but first you need ask to she or say.

Hey i like you so... you love me?
if she say yes: be happy for she and you √
if she say no: forget she and search for other √

it happen with me
but anyway be yourself have more of million girls like you
so be happy

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Oh my god. That made my day. I wonder how hard the girl will laugh if I ask her that.

But, I think it might work on a under 14 in Japan. Girls are stupid there, but so damn cute.

Don't molest girls in Japan

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Chinese girls are skinny, meh. Japanese girls mostly have chubby legs mmmm.
This girl is cute, really.

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does anyone know how to ask a girl out with saying" hey your sexy i wanna have sex with u".
coz i like this girl but. she doesn't know
So How do you. Ask a girl out?


Never ask for sex.
That's the main turn off, because as soon as a girl thinks you're there just for the sex, they'll drop you like some kind of mutated cancerous abomination.

Ask if her if she would like to hang out, talk about random stuff, goof off, invite her to movies and just generally be a great friend.
The longer of a friend you are with her, the more chance you will have her getting an emotional attachment to you, as you will eventually have (if not already) to her.
The more you know each other, the more you'll know what to do for her to make her like you, the more she likes you, the easier it will be for you to get her to like you, you can guess where it goes after two who are in love like each other enough to the point where they "like like" each other.

Let the relationship grow naturally, don't try to push it or you'll end up overdoing it and freaking her out.

AND REMEMBER, AVOID CORNY PICKUP LINES AND DON'T EVEN DARE BOTHER MENTIONING HOW BEAUTIFUL SHE IS. That will land you in hot water as she will put the two together and figure out that you're here just for the sex. Just be kind, hang out, do things together like I dunno... Go karting or something? Movies, sleep overs where you have an all-nighter movie night with your usual alcoholic beverages if you're both into that stuff, just have a really good time, and continue having a good time.

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What you need here is confidence and more confidence.

Even if she rejects you act like you don't care , and really , don't care.

And you better listen to oxy , that kid has the balls as far as i see.

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Hey i like you so... you love me?


God, the cheesiness and the awkwardness of this quote is off the charts! Why the fuck would you say something like that straight forward? Sounds dumb.

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I personally had some experiences...

If she is the same school as you, try to have a little contact with her, just walk and start a conversation.

There MUST be something to talk about that connects you to her (like homework, movies, music)

If she dont know you, her first impression about yourself counts the most , if you want to go out with her faster .

And the most succesfull (for me) is the eye contact.
I explain , how you might get her.
Womens love confident men, with self expression and secure about himselves.

You could do like that:

"You walk in the corridor of the school or whatever , just go around somewhere near that girl. Fix her, so just make sure she notice you fixing her.

After a while, walk to her , and when you are walking look her in the eyes, and smile
(You know that expression of smiling , but not really smiling)
And just say "Hi"
She will , i repeat she will answer you , unless she have her friends around, and dont want to 'lose' her sort of a reputation .
if she smiles, while saying ''hi" to you , you win the part .

And just find something to talk about. Like saying: ''Mmhh, yeah , i was just wondering what is the t'shirt you are wearing".
And remember to smile and appreciate the answers she give to you. She will maybe think that is ridicoulous , like who are you to talk to her ... But don't worry , smile , and talk in a secure way , and everything will be fine ...

Finish, by saying "Yeah, thanks for the information'' or something. and just simply walk away.
If you did every step perfectly she might ask you what is your name , and you know you will going on .

But if not , you know that every time you will see her , you're some sort of friend to her, so you will not have problems to go and talk to her , you know ...

Or just finish the conversation (Previous step )
by saying:

"Yeah, i will just tell you the truth. I came here because youre so pretty and i had that feeling to talk to you . (and smile , and be confident)



when i was 12 or something , i was so nervous ,
things changed when i got 15 , so i just said to myself,
"Fuck man , i'm just losing time! . Fuck everything , i'm going to get myself a girl" .

My way of living changed , i think i'm more happier now...

Hope you will reach your dreams :p
and hope i helped you

~1bonp

(Now sorry , i go to study my math test cause i got it in like 20 minutes :s )

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when i was 12 or something , i was so nervous ,
things changed when i got 15 , so i just said to myself,
"Fuck man , i'm just losing time! . Fuck everything , i'm going to get myself a girl" .


i didnt read all but this is a good part. its nice to see that young man already understand how important it is to have many many girls. and have with them.
yeah you gonna catch em all ! you lost enough time!
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